Selina grew up in a time and place that allowed children to be relatively wild and free. It was a time when a bicycle and a few pennies for the ice cream truck was all that was needed for ultimate freedom. Imagination was the magic carpet that entertained and filled those long steamy summer days and soft firefly filled summer nights.
The year Selina started kindergarten her family moved from their Portuguese and Italian neighborhood where everyone was family, to a new neighborhood carved from the remains of an old apple orchard, where nobody was. Selina felt that the “sameness” of this new neighborhood was boring and unnatural. She missed the Aunties that lived behind almost every door on her street; oh, how their cooking filled the street with the most enticing aromas! She missed the jokes the Aunties would play on them; one favorite was when they would open an upstairs window and sprinkle water on the children’s heads who played too noisily on the back bulkheads. Noise, laughter, food and love, it was all there! This new neighborhood…eye, yi, yi…everyone was the same, same age, did the same things, drove the same cars, were the same religion and worst of all, they all seemed to put great importance on “behaving” and conforming to some unseen standard! A “because I said so!” culture…
Despite the sameness in this neighborhood, there was one a unique or unfortunate individual, depending on your prospective. Harry Sears was older that most, mute, and reportedly had no family save his old black Labrador whom he was never seen without. He traveled by bicycle only, and lived in a little shack down a dirt path beyond the manicured, polite safeness of the neighborhood. Here, on this wild and overgrown farmland, Selina imagined Harry and his dog being lulled to sleep by the haunting hoots of owls while under the protection of the Spirits of the Wounded Hearts.
The children were all told, “Do not talk to Harry! Leave the poor man alone!” The children were told things that made them afraid…But Selina, being Selina; a prove-it-to-me kind of girl did not heed these warnings nor buy into those fears, in fact she spoke with Harry often. She made it a point to greet him with cheerful hellos and inquired how he was. She would also greet his dog, but much to her dismay never learned his dog’s true name due to Harry’s muteness. She was often chastised for talking to him and received repeated warning about “dangerous strangers” to no effect. And so these “dangerous” greetings and small talk continued…
Selina does not remember the time of year or the circumstances that led up to the fire in that little shack that killed Harry and his dog, only this; that Harry and his dog were found together behind a door, no one seems to know who was trying to rescue whom only that they were together.
To this day, some 50 years later, I wonder what kind of jewel this man might have been to this neighborhood if compassion and empathy had overcome the fear and distrust, if just one individual had overcome conformity…
So, Happy St. Valentine’s Day Harry Sears to you and your beloved dog, although you were a little part of my life I think of you now and again and am grateful for having known you!